So I just really needed to vent about this real quick….I can not stand people who wake up on the wrong side of the bed and take it out on the world at large. We’ve all met people like this. They’re frustrated with their own lives and feel the need to make everyone else as pissed off as they are. It’s different if it’s a child who can’t control their emotions but a grown adult should know better and be perceptive enough to realize when they’re treating others unfairly.
Now we all have days where we don’t feel 100% and we may not always notice how we treat others at those times. Everyone has a sucky day, that’s not a big deal. I’m talking about the people who act this way on a semi-regular basis. I have a member of my family who’s like this and it drives me absolutely nuts! They have a bad couple days and the whole house has to suffer for it. Whenever you approach them they have nothing nice to say. They bark orders at everyone and are condescending (more than usual anyway). Even when your away from them and minding your own business its like they seek you out just trying tp push your buttons and it leaves you wondering, “What in the HELL did I ever do to you!?”.
What’s most irritating is these people don’t even realize how much they can affect their victims (yes I was that dramatic and said VICTIMS!). One jerk can put a damper on your whole day if the situation is right. These people need to realize, nobody wants to be around a sourpuss. If you’re being a completely negative person and do nothing but complain, argue, and put people down, no one is going to put up with you. I guess the only argument here is, “What if they are going through some rough times?”. My above mentioned family member loves to use this excuse. Everyone goes through rough patches in their lives. Nevertheless, if your walking round being ornery and unpleasant rather than expressing yourself in an appropriate manner, no one is going to be sympathetic towards you. Also, the situation you’re dealing with may not be half as bad if you tried being more positive on a daily basis. Trust me, all that negative energy isn’t helping anyone, least of all you.So, to sum it up, stop being evil and check your attitude at the door. Quit throwing hissy fits with an innocent third-party that has nothing to do with the issue that has your panties in a twist. People, if you can’t act like a kind and civil individual then please just stay away from the general public. Go to your room, close the door behind you, and stay there until you can behave decently because no one wants to deal with your attitude!….or get some therapy/anger management.